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How to Do Solo Travel—Without Going Totally Alone

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Solo-ish travel options that let you roam free…with a little company along the way

You want the freedom of solo travel, the “I do what I want, when I want” energy, but the idea of being completely alone? Maybe not your vibe. The good news: solo travel doesn’t have to mean total isolation. There are so many ways to go solo-ish, meet people, and still enjoy the empowerment of doing it on your own terms.

Here’s how to do solo travel without feeling like a lone wolf the whole time:

1. Join a Small Group Tour (for Just a Few Days)

Not all tours are weeks-long commitments with matching T-shirts. Many companies offer short tours or 1–3 day group add-ons—think food tours, nature hikes, or city immersions. It’s a great way to meet fellow travelers without giving up your independence.

Try this for your first trip: book a 4-day group adventure to kick off your solo travel, then stay a few extra days on your own.

2. Pick a Social Stay

Opt for boutique hostels, co-living spaces, or even hotels with community events. Many now host yoga sessions, wine hours, or walking tours. You can still have your private room but meet other travelers when you’re in the mood.

Tip: Check places with shared kitchens or lounges. Those often spark the best convos.

3. Meet People Through Experiences, Not Just Lodging

Sign up for cooking classes, paddleboarding lessons, art walks, or brewery tours. These are low-pressure, fun, and naturally social. You might not become best friends with everyone, but you’ll have great conversations and shared moments.

4. Use Travel-Friendly Social Apps

There are apps (like Tourlina, Backpackr, and even Meetup) designed for solo travelers to find others nearby who want to grab a coffee, explore a museum, or do a group activity. It’s not dating, it’s just connection.

5. Build in “Anchor Points” With People You Know

Flying solo doesn’t mean cutting all ties. Plan to meet up with a friend for part of the trip, or overlap with someone you know in a destination even if it’s just for a dinner. It gives you comfort without giving up your solo time.

6. Stay Solo, But Plug Into Online Communities

Instagram DMs, Facebook groups, and travel forums are full of solo travelers sharing tips and even meeting up. Join a few and ask, “Anyone else in Santa Fe this week?” You’d be surprised how many friendly faces show up.

Solo travel doesn’t have to be all or nothing. You can have freedom and connection. Quiet time and social moments. Adventure and support. That’s the beauty of designing your own trip. You get to choose how solo you want it to feel.

“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.”