Breakups can be brutal, but they also crack open the door to rediscovery, healing, and solo adventures that remind you who you are.
Whether you’re craving silence, inspiration, or something a little wild, these solo-friendly destinations are made for post-breakup power moves.
REST & RECONNECT
1. Sedona, Arizona
A spiritual wonderland with red rocks, healing vortexes, and quiet trails perfect for thinking (or not thinking).
Top Things to Do:
- Hike Cathedral Rock at sunrise
- Book a crystal sound bath or energy session
- Stargaze in the desert
Recommended Stays:
- L’Auberge de Sedona – luxury cabins with creekside serenity
- Amara Resort and Spa – modern, walkable, and full of wellness vibes
2. Big Sur, California
For when you need to stare out at the ocean and remember how big the world really is.
Top Things to Do:
- Scenic drive down Highway 1
- Soak in hot springs at Esalen (book in advance!)
- Visit McWay Falls and Pfeiffer Beach
Recommended Stays:
- Glen Oaks Big Sur – stylish cabins immersed in redwoods
- Big Sur River Inn – rustic, affordable, charming
3. Ojai, California
A mellow, artsy escape with a woo-woo heart and a calming soul.
Top Things to Do:
- Attend a sound bath
- Explore art galleries and indie shops
- Hike Meditation Mount at sunset
Recommended Stays:
- Ojai Valley Inn – splurge-worthy spa retreat
- The Capri Hotel – mid-century, affordable, great solo vibe
EMPOWER & ENERGIZE
4. New York City, NY
If you’re ready to channel main character energy and do exactly what you want.
Top Things to Do:
- Walk the High Line
- See a Broadway show solo
- Treat yourself to rooftop cocktails
Recommended Stays:
- Moxy Times Square – fun, central, and social
- The Ludlow Hotel – chic and cozy with Lower East Side flair
5. New Orleans, Louisiana
Where you can dance, eat, cry a little, and dance some more.
Top Things to Do:
- Live jazz on Frenchmen Street
- Ghost or cemetery tour
- Beignets at Café du Monde at 2 a.m.
Recommended Stays:
- Hotel Peter and Paul – beautiful and atmospheric
- Ace Hotel New Orleans – great for solo travelers with a creative vibe
6. Austin, Texas
Keep it weird. And delicious. And empowering.
Top Things to Do:
- Paddleboard on Lady Bird Lake
- Eat all the tacos
- Shop vintage on South Congress
Recommended Stays:
- Hotel San José – artsy and walkable
- The Carpenter Hotel – low-key luxe with great coffee
ADVENTURE & PERSPECTIVE
7. Costa Rica
Jungle hikes, surfing, zip-lining—sometimes the best way to heal is to do.
Top Things to Do:
- Surf in Santa Teresa
- Zipline in Monteverde
- Hike Arenal Volcano
Recommended Stays:
- Selina Santa Teresa – social, surfy, and solo-friendly
- Nayara Gardens (Arenal) – luxury and lush
8. Lisbon, Portugal
Soulful music, great views, and solo strolls through charming alleyways.
Top Things to Do:
- Ride tram 28
- Listen to live Fado
- Day trip to Sintra
Recommended Stays:
- The Lisboans Apartments – stylish and self-catering
- Selina Secret Garden – fun and well-located for solo travelers
9. Bali, Indonesia
The classic “eat-pray-love” healing spot—and for good reason.
Top Things to Do:
- Yoga in Ubud
- Temple visits and rice terrace walks
- Smoothie bowls and beach lounging in Canggu
Recommended Stays:
- Soulshine Bali – co-owned by Michael Franti, focused on wellness and connection
- The Chillhouse – laid-back surf and yoga retreat
CREATE & EXPLORE
10. Santa Fe, New Mexico
An earthy, creative escape with art and adobe everywhere.
Top Things to Do:
- Visit Georgia O’Keeffe Museum
- Pottery or painting class
- Wander Canyon Road
Recommended Stays:
- Inn of the Five Graces – artsy and luxurious
- El Rey Court – hip and retro
11. Charleston, South Carolina
Charming, warm, and full of beautiful corners for solo daydreaming.
Top Things to Do:
- Food tour or cooking class
- Beach day at Sullivan’s Island
- Stroll Rainbow Row and the Battery
Recommended Stays:
- The Dewberry – elegant and central
- 86 Cannon – boutique and adult-only
12. Northern Michigan (Petoskey, Harbor Springs)
Woods, water, and a fresh-air escape perfect for summer reflection.
Top Things to Do:
- Kayak on Lake Michigan
- Wine tasting on the Bay View Trail
- Read on the beach at Petoskey State Park
Recommended Stays:
The Hotel Walloon (Walloon Lake) – peaceful and lakefront
Stafford’s Perry Hotel (Petoskey) – historic charm
