You love the idea of traveling solo, freedom, flexibility, doing your own thing.
But… you don’t necessarily want to be alone the whole time.
Totally fair. Solo travel doesn’t have to mean isolation. In fact, many women are craving a sweet spot: solo, but social. A trip that’s independent with a splash of community, shared meals, and maybe a new friend or two.
So, how do you actually find like-minded women who feel the same?
First, What Is a Social Solo Experience?
It’s a trip you plan for you, but with room to connect. Think:
- Traveling independently but meeting up with others for an activity or meal
- Booking a solo-friendly group tour or retreat
- Staying somewhere that encourages interaction
- Matching with another solo traveler who overlaps for a day or two
It’s solo travel…with options to not be solo all the time.
6 Ways to Find Women Who Want to Travel This Way Too
1. Join Female-Only Travel Communities Online
There are tons of amazing women-focused groups filled with solo travelers looking to connect, swap tips, or even meet up.
Try:
- Girls LOVE Travel (GLT) on Facebook (1M+ members!)
- Solo Female Travelers group — they host in-person meetups and tours
- She Hit Refresh (great for 30+ travelers and career-breakers)
- Digital Nomad Girls for those combining travel + work
Tip: Post your travel dates and ask if anyone will be in the same place. You’ll be surprised how often someone is!
2. Use “Not-Dating” Apps Like Bumble BFF or Tourlina
Apps aren’t just for dating anymore. These are built for finding friend energy on the road:
- Bumble BFF: Set your location to your destination city and connect with women there
- Tourlina: A female-only travel companion app
- Travello: Connects travelers based on location and interests
- Backpackr or GAFFL: Meet travelers with similar plans
Even if you don’t meet up IRL, it’s nice to feel like someone else is out there doing the same thing.
3. Join a Themed Group Experience (But Still Go Solo)
Want the freedom of traveling alone, but not being alone 24/7?
Book one or two solo-friendly group activities at your destination:
- Food or cocktail tours
- Hiking or yoga classes
- Cooking or creative workshops
- Airbnb Experiences with a small group vibe
You’ll meet people who already love what you love, no awkward small talk required.
4. Follow Solo Travel Creators & Meetups
Many solo travel influencers now host small meetups or trips. Follow them and keep an eye out for:
- Pop-up coffee meetups in major cities
- Community shoutouts (“Who’s in Paris this weekend?”)
- Curated group trips for solo women (intros made before the trip)
5. Stay Somewhere That Encourages Connection
Where you stay shapes how connected you feel.
Look for:
- Hostels with private rooms (best of both worlds)
- Boutique hotels or guesthouses with common areas
- Women-only accommodations or coliving spaces
- Properties that host events like dinners or yoga
Ask in reviews: “Would you recommend this for solo travelers?” You’ll know pretty fast if it’s social or snoozy.
