How to Celebrate You, With or Without the Family
Mother’s Day can look a lot of different ways. It might be brunch with your kids. A quiet spa afternoon. A quick weekend away. A solo coffee and long walk. Or even a day that feels a little complicated.
Whatever season you are in, this is your reminder that you deserve care too. You do not need a big production. You just need intention.
Whether you are staying close to home, planning a quick escape, or celebrating as a proud dog or cat mom, here are meaningful ways to make the day feel special.
Staying Close to Home? Make It Feel Special Anyway.
You do not have to board a plane to elevate the day. The key is being intentional.
Host or Attend a Tea Party Experience
Channel elegance with a proper afternoon tea. Think tiered trays, delicate pastries and sparkling wine.
If you are in New York City, New York, afternoon tea at The Plaza Hotel is a classic experience that feels timeless and special.
In other cities, look for boutique hotels or historic inns offering formal tea service. Invite friends, bring your mom, or go solo with a book and enjoy the quiet.
Search for “afternoon tea near me” or “Mother’s Day tea service + your city” to find hidden gems.
Relax at a Local Spa or Hot Spring
If relaxation is calling, answer it.
Look for:
• A half day spa package
• A massage and facial combination
• A pedicure and sauna experience
• A nearby hot spring soak
If you live near natural hot springs in Colorado, Arizona or California, even a short drive can feel like a full reset. If not, many day spas now offer soaking pools and relaxation lounges that provide the same restorative energy.
Treat Yourself to Food and Wine
No cooking. No cleaning. No rushing.
Choose a restaurant you have been wanting to try and make it your reservation of the day. Consider:
• A chef’s tasting menu
• A local wine tasting experience or vineyard visit
• A curated wine and cheese pairing
• A seasonal farm to table dinner
• A guided food walking tour
If staying in feels better, build your own tasting experience at home with beautiful cheeses, artisan chocolate and a bottle of something you truly enjoy.
Mother’s Day can be simple and still feel indulgent.
Shop ‘Til You Drop at Local Boutiques
Skip the mall and explore a charming neighborhood instead.
Search for:
• Historic downtown shopping districts
• Artisan markets
• Women owned boutiques
• Pop up markets
Pair it with a coffee stop and patio lunch and you have the perfect relaxed Mother’s Day plan.
If You Can Plan a Quick Escape
If you can get away for one or two nights, keep it simple and high reward.
Afternoon Tea and Culture in New York City, New York
Stay near Central Park, book tea at The Plaza Hotel, stroll through the park, browse Fifth Avenue and end the evening with a Broadway show.
Best time: Early to mid May offers beautiful spring weather.
Spa Escape in Scottsdale, Arizona
Scottsdale blends sunshine, desert beauty and world class spas.
Spend your time:
• Booking spa treatments
• Relaxing poolside
• Exploring nearby desert trails
• Enjoying sunset dinners
Best time: Spring is ideal before summer heat arrives.
Wine and Culinary Weekend in Napa Valley, California
If indulgence is your theme, Napa Valley delivers.
Think:
• Boutique wineries
• Vineyard views
• Tasting menus
• Relaxed luxury accommodations
Best time: Spring and fall offer ideal temperatures and scenery.
Boutique Shopping and Coastal Charm in Charleston, South Carolina
Charleston combines historic charm with incredible food.
Enjoy:
• Exploring King Street boutiques
• Dining on fresh seafood
• Booking a historic walking tour
• Relaxing at a coastal spa
Best time: Spring is beautiful with flowers in bloom and comfortable temperatures.
Soak and Slow Down in Glenwood Springs, Colorado
For a nature focused reset, consider Glenwood Springs.
Soak in hot springs, read, nap and repeat. It is simple, and sometimes simple is perfect.
Best time: Late spring through early fall offers comfortable weather.
The Dog Mom and Cat Mom Mother’s Day 🐶 🐱
They may not buy the gift, but they absolutely deserve the celebration.
Dog Mom Day Ideas (What your dog might suggest)
Plan a day built around fresh air and good treats.
Consider:
• A dog friendly brunch spot with a patio
• An espresso martini for you
• A scenic walk or easy hike
• A new neighborhood walking tour
• A stop at a bakery that offers dog treats
Pack a blanket, sit in the sun and let it feel easy.
Cat Mom Day Ideas (What your cat might suggest)
Cats understand the art of rest. Take notes.
Plan:
• A late morning sleep in
• A massage, reflexology or pedicure appointment
• A quiet coffee shop visit
• A cozy afternoon with a book
• Your favorite takeout
Let yourself slow down. That alone can feel like a gift.
Mother’s Day, Your Way
Mother’s Day does not have to be elaborate to be meaningful. It can be restorative. Indulgent. Playful. Solo. Social. Close to home. Or somewhere new.
The point is not perfection. It is presence.
If you are ready to plan something bigger, explore more getaway ideas and women’s travel inspiration at Just Go Solo and find a celebration that fits you. You deserve it. Happy Mother’s Day to all! 🩷
